Tiger Moms: Is Tough Parenting Really the Answer? Tiger Mother’: Are Chinese Moms Really So Different? It was aspects of parenting “Little White Donkey” incident that pushed many readers over the edge. Lulu learned to play the piece.
Chua had been called as a child by her strict Chinese father. And, oh, yes, for some readers it was the card that young Lulu made for her mother’s birthday. I don’t want this,” Chua announced, adding that she expected to receive a drawing that Lulu had “put some thought and effort into. Throwing the card back at her daughter, she told her, “I deserve better than this.
Even before Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, Chua’s proudly politically incorrect account of raising her children “the Chinese way,” arrived in bookstores Jan. 11, her parenting methods were the incredulous, indignant talk of every playground, supermarket and coffee shop. Chua’s reports from the trenches of authoritarian parenthood are indeed disconcerting, even shocking, in their candid admission of maternal ruthlessness. Her book is a Mommie Dearest for the age of the memoir, when we tell tales on ourselves instead of our relatives. But there’s something else behind the intense reaction to Tiger Mother, which has shot to the top of best-seller lists even as it’s been denounced on the airwaves and the Internet.
He makes the occasional cameo appearance in Tiger Mother, cast as the tenderhearted foil to Chua’s merciless taskmaster. When Rubenfeld protested Chua’s harangues over “The Little White Donkey,” for instance, Chua informed him that his older daughter Sophia could play the piece when she was Lulu’s age. Sophia and Lulu are different people, Rubenfeld remonstrated reasonably. With a stroke of her razor-sharp pen, Chua has set a whole nation of parents to wondering: Are we the losers she’s talking about? See pictures of a Washington, D. Community services search form What are you looking for? Do you care for someone else?