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I’m going to race through as many of the unanswered questions as I can in this week’s column. Is there a way of breaking my cycle of being totally sexual and into someone for the first six months and then shutting down to the point that I don’t want to be sexual with them at all? Breaking a long-established pattern may require the aid of a therapist who can help you unpack your damage—if, indeed, this is about damage. How common a kink is it to enjoy seeing your significant other having sex with someone else? Common enough to have numerous different ways of manifesting itself—swinging, hotwifing, cuckolding, stag-and-vixen play—and an entire porn genre dedicated to it. I bruise easily, am into BDSM, and love to swim in my condo’s shared pool, where there are many seniors.
Any advice for hiding bruises or getting over the embarrassment? Someone who became a senior citizen today—who just turned 65 years old—was 35 in 1988. I happen to know for a fact that people were doing BDSM way, way back in 1988. My husband is a sweet guy who is very good to me.
But he is also a gun-toting right-wing conservative, and these days that feels like an insurmountable difference. We have been together for seven years and married for two. I love him—and the thought of leaving him is terrifying—but I honestly don’t know if this is going to work. If you’re afraid to leave him because of those guns, you need to get out. If you’re afraid to leave him because you love him and couldn’t live without him, you might be able to stay. I wouldn’t be able to stay, personally, but you might.
Maybe if you make “no political discussions about anything, ever” a condition of remaining in the marriage. When you are entering into something new, how do you differentiate between infatuation and real feelings? Only time will tell if other real but more lasting feelings—like, like like, love, lasting love—will surface when those feelings of infatuation inevitably fade. I can easily have an orgasm with toys but I can’t have one with my boyfriend.
Your boyfriend could give you orgasms if you handed him one of those toys, showed him how you use it on yourself, and then guided his hands the first few times he used it on you. Why does my girlfriend enjoy anal sex more than I thought she would? Because the clit is a great big organ and most of it’s inside the body and anal penetration may stimulate the backside of your girlfriend’s great big clitoris in a way that’s new and different and highly pleasurable and—hey, wait a minute. You aren’t disappointed she’s enjoying anal more than you thought she would, are you? Donald Trump has been impeached, and you get to decide the punishment. So what sex toy gets used on him and who gets to use it?
Trump doesn’t deserve a sex toy. Sex toys are for good boys and girls. All Trump deserves is a lump of the coal he loves so much shoved far enough up his ass to serve as a gag. Is there EVER a healthy way to partake in sensual parties while in a monogamous marriage? I’m married and finishing my PhD while working full-time. As a result, I don’t get to spend as much time as I would like with my wonderful husband. I know you’re a workaholic as well.
I take a moment now and then to reassure him that things will settle down soon and we’ll have more time together. I’ve found he’s most receptive to this message when it’s delivered immediately after I’ve taken a few minutes to blow him. Do you recommend specific prostate massage toys? How do you approach people about a three-way without ruining friendships? I think close sexy friends and the-sex-was-great-but-everything-else-sucked exes make the best “very special guest stars. But if you’re worried about ruining friendships, well, don’t hit on friends. And remember: A stranger is just a friend you haven’t had a three-way with yet.
When we speak of gay oral without a condom—which is almost all of the gay oral out there—we speak of ones that sucked not wisely but too well. They must be, because I have them. I’m glad there’s at least one person out there who’s managing to enjoy the Trump era. I’m a 21-year-old, queer, poly, cis girl who recently got into this whole thing with a coworker at my shitty fast-food job. Long story short, we were having a rad time fucking around in the freezer until he bashed International Women’s Day on Facebook.