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Here’s hoping we’ll soon be back in God’s own country,” said Oldaker, raising his glass. I congratulate you, Miss Porter,” he said, raising his hat. Raising his eyes from a contemplation of the heels in front of him, he saw Belle Langdon. Raising his arm for a fresh stroke, his wrist was smashed by a bullet. Once in a great while she met him on the street, and he bowed, raising his hat silently. I will tell you the truth,” she promised, raising the glasses. When the trial come off,” answered the old man, raising his head again.
Amelia, however, succeeded only in raising herself in his esteem. The raising of a house or ship into the air is a visible miracle. Get a print subscription to Reader’s Digest and instantly enjoy free digital access on any device. One of the most important things you can do for your child is help them manage their emotions. But it’s not an easy thing to teach. Here, experts give their best tips on raising emotionally intelligent children.
Kids are impulsive by nature and when unchecked they can become impulsive adults,” shares Aleasa Word, certified emotional intelligence coach. Impulsivity undermines emotional intelligence, so teach children to stop and think about how they feel before they act. She suggests using visual cues, like a special bracelet or trigger words to help kids learn how to pause. Explain to kids the importance of taking five seconds to respond to anything, unless it’s an emergency. Have mandatory family-talk time,” advises Tom Kersting, licensed psychotherapist and author of Disconnected: How To Reconnect Our Digitally Distracted Kids. The average parent spends three and a half minutes per week in meaningful conversation with their children. Feelings are neither right nor wrong, they just are, and everyone is entitled to their feelings, including your child,” says Harvey Deutschendorf, author of The Other Kind of Smart, Simple Ways to Boost Your Emotional Intelligence for Greater Personal Effectiveness and Success.
Always encourage them to express their feelings through questioning. Children of all ages may struggle to put words to the emotions they’re experiencing. You can help them by suggesting, but never telling them, what they might be feeling,” Deutschendorf says. If my best friend wouldn’t talk to me, I would probably feel abandoned or unwanteddoes that sound right? You could share your feelings if you experienced a similar situation, thereby encouraging your child to open up and trust you with her feelings. A big aspect of teaching emotional intelligence in children is modeling it as you experience your own feelings in your day-to-day life. Children watch their parents closely and pick up on healthy and unhealthy coping skills based on what they observe.