When wife Julie had Blake six weeks early last October, Morris was on the phone to hear tips for raising daughters: how to raise a girl first whimper. SEAMAN RAYMOND MARQUEZ AND RAYMOND JR. Marquez, whose wife, Valerie, gave birth to their second on Feb. The first time Jaiden throws up on him will be fun to watch.
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When mothers are overly critical, their daughters are more likely to have poor social skills and unhealthy attitudes toward eating, compared with girls with more supportive moms. The finding is not entirely surprising, says lead researcher Analisa Arroyo, PhD. We’ve long known that children’s sense of self-value and self-image are strongly influenced by messages sent by parents,” she says. But I think this study raises awareness of the mother’s role in daughters’ self-views, social competence, and mental health.
She’s the author of Mothers and Daughters: Living, Loving, and Learning Over a Lifetime. The mother-daughter relationship is important in a multitude of ways,” she says. Essentially, it’s a female’s first experience of an intimate relationship, and through this relationship we learn about trust, about separation and connection, about putting another’s needs ahead of our own, and about who we are as individuals. So how can you ensure a strong mother-daughter bond, one that gives your daughter a good foundation for healthy relationships — both with others and herself? Try to make most conversations constructive, rather than critical, Arroyo says.
For example, instead of pointing out something she’s wearing that you don’t like, point out something you do: “The color of that shirt looks great on you! And it’s not just about appearance. When your daughter makes a bad decision — which she’s bound to do — don’t focus on the error of her ways. In our culture, we’re conditioned to bemoan our own bodies as well as criticize others’.